Hanging out with Cortez

After long summer, I finally had time to hang out with Cortez. We used to spend so much time together before, now, both traveling, so every so and then we have a chance to have fun.
He is one of very few guys who are able to Juggle Multiple girls without any problems. For him its like 2-3 girls in a fish tank. You feed them every few days, and they are happy. Strategy he uses is very well knows, its keeping them as separate objects in his life.He never talks about other girls, when this topic comes out, he avoids topic..
Its funny to watch, like most of his girls are aware that hes seeing and f**ing other girls, but they enjoy hes company so much, that they don't matter.
One of girls found tampons and toothbrush from other girl, after some drama, she is still back.

Some stories from his world are so funny... I enjoy time with him. Hes very good example of Natural Player... I learned from him so much.
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Sad statistics

Had interesting realization today..

Probably you know that Female sex Organ is 5cm longer then Male sex organ.

Now, that on planet there is more then 3 billion females, that means that more then 150 thousand's Kilometers of PUSSY is EMPTY.

Gusy.. we really need to do something about this!
:)

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Picking up 9's and 10's

Picking up 9's and 10's

Most guys believe that 9's and 10's are super hard to get and that you need to have ultra strong game. Which is not true. The Game you play on those girls is just different. It’s not harder or easier, just different!

It’s the same effort and it takes same time, but the style of game is very different. In some ways gaming 7's can be harder then 9.5's.

Let me explain.

7's and 8's – dont want a total chump – nice guy, they want a guy who is kinda strong(Alpha), so they can rely on him(insecurity problem), BUT at same time, she wants some kind of emotional connection with him(Rapport).

So your game needs to be calibrated so fucking good for those girls. You will need to calibrate how dominant you are to get good Attraction, and how much Rapport you need to pull her into bed. Every girl is going to be different. It's very personal how much Attraction\ Rapport she needs. There are so many factors that controls this ratio, and formula is complicated.

Here are a few factors :

-Parents ( who is more dominant in house ) - they always search for a father role in future BF
-First sexual experience \ First boyfriend (for example, if guy was cheating her she will search lots of rapport & trust in next guys who come, and less Atraction)
-Last boyfriend (If guy was bad in sex, she will go for guys who are more dominant, sexual.
-Her friends (her friends have lot of influence on her, and she will mirror their value)

So probably now you understand why its not possible to tell how much attraction or rapport she may need before you start talking with a girl. It’s almost impossible to create prefect model thats going to wok in every case. That’s why those 7's and 8's require a shitload of calibration.

Rule of thumb is that those girls need way more rapport then attraction.
CA - LI - BR - ATE

With very very beautiful & sexy girls, ( 9's and10's ) it’s a very different story.
FIRST Lets take a look what's happening in their life :

- Parents know how beautiful she is, and they treat her whole life as a Diamond.
- In a High School she is a Princess, and guys starting to hit on her left and right. All guys want to have sex with her.
- Everytime she goes out, guys are licking her ass, and do everything she wants, as they think thats the way to get into her panties.
- All guys are super, super insecure around her, and treat her super nice.

-She finds rich Boyfriend (Sponsor) who buys her everything. He's fun for a while, after some time she dumps him.
- When she asks for something she gets it!

Now you can see a problem. Everyone wants to create rapport with her, and is super nice. So basically to be different, and to create attraction, you need to break every possible rapport with her. And don't want to connect with her at all. You need to be different then everyone else. You need to show that you are not affected with her beauty at all, and you dont think she is special at all. You need to be total selfish bastard.
This is part of game I love to play.

With those girls, there is no Rapport at all. She needs to create rapport with you. On first sign that you like her and you want to connect with her may be a turn off for her.
She knows she can get everything she wants, and when she start getting it, it gets boring. So dont give her what she wants. Consciously or Unconsciously.

10: Can you hand me this glass?
Me : You have arms and legs .

10 sms : „ I am helping my friend he has a problem with Gf, she takes drugs..blabla... He needs my help“
Me : „ Give him a Blowjob“

10 : I thik I want to live somewhere else, maybe New York, Or.. I donno.. Africa maybe as well
Me : „ yea, go to Jungle, thats best for you.

10 : I like Xy
Me : I hate Xy

Its interesting. She will stay around you as long as you do this. I personally feel very stupid being around those girls, But as for playing this game I Love it.

Be carefull with their IOI's.

From time to time they will throw something very personal, like a compliment.. but its only a test on the unconscious level.
”You are so special, I love to be around you, no one makes me feel so sexy... I like you, I cant stop thinking about you....“

Something like this will happen after you become very strong in her life, and you think the game is over. You think she is yours, you got her. BUT
I made this mistake so many times. If you reply something like “I like you too.. I am thinking about you as well“ If you do this its game over. You lost her. You showed affection. You are just like all other guys.

This is super sensitive game with them.You can make only one mistake.

Its best if you just keep it rolling, and stay congruent with your original image.
Its very hard, but you must be total non-emotional dick with them.

Attitude to have is “She is just little kid that peed in her panties, and is crying for attention.“

An Opener I love to use on these girls is, “Are you a Man or a Woman“ with a totally serious face.

Let the bitch qualify herself.

10's are not that hard at all when you are around them alone. The only problem with 10's is you cant find them in regular life, and there are not enough of them even at the best nightclubs.

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Emotional Momentum

It's important to keep emotional momentum going after you've met a girl and are in the process of seducing her. One of the best tools for doing that without overextending yourself is text messages.

Come up with an arsenal of cute/funny/interesting txts you can send starting the night you meet her (if you aren't taking her home ;) and through the next few days... You should have an actual phone conversation within 2-3 days of meeting, but keeping a txt exchange going insures that you stay fresh in her mind and maintain her positive emotional associations with you.

Allowing a lag time to happen after a cold approach can kill your momentum. It can be shocking how much girls are creatures of the moment... A set that seems unbelievably on suddenly doesn't answer your call two days later. Why? She's moved on emotionally. Basically, she forgot how much she was into you that night, met someone else and doesn't feel it anymore.

Most women to an extent have emotional ADD until you cement a truly solid connection with them. They are all over the place and follow impulses and stimuli as they come along. Take this into account and use it to your advantage by making sure that you are one of those ongoing stimuli by keeping in touch regularly with txt messages.

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Boyfriend are BS - Ebook Excerpt

Last night I made out with a girl who had a boyfriend... I found out because the girl's friend mentioned the guy and made sure I heard it when she saw I was gaming her friend. Then later the girl mentioned something about her boyfriend. How do you deal with this?

YOU IGNORE. Nod, say nothing about it and move on...

By the end of the night she was making out with me and we have a date for this weekend...

If I had gotten into some discussion over the guy or tried to talk about him, this never would have happened. It just would have cemented the reality that what we were doing was wrong and the guy was part of our reality... Boyfriends are bullshit. Ignore their existence and game girls normally and create a new world with just the two of you... unless the guy is standing right next to her of course.

Check out the excerpt from the upcoming ebook below:


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From the New BBL Ebook

Don’t talk about her boyfriend at all. First, because the guy probably doesn’t even exist. It’s just a shit test early on. And second, if he does exist, the more you talk about him the more you reinforce that it matters and that she shouldn’t cheat. If you do a good job in sucking her into your reality, and ignore the concept of the boyfriend, she will do the same and pretend he’s not in the picture. Again lead and she will follow. The key to seduction is how you make them feel. If you play it right and skirt around the boyfriend concept with discretion, she will feel comfortable being with you whether he’s real or not.

EBook Release Date!

So, the word finally came down on the official release date of the new Badboy Lifestyle Seduction Guide Ebook... March 1st.

It's official. It will be available through the site and I will have links to it from the blog and through the NEWSLETTER, which you should already be signed up for ....

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Take Care of Yourself

Too many guys go out looking like crap. Go buy a bunch of men's fashion magazines. Look at guys who are serious players. Choose a style based on that. Then go into your closet and THROW OUT ALL YOUR DORKY FUCKING CLOTHES. NOW!

If you don't need them for work, you should not be wearing them. Go to the store and buy cool clothes. If you have no ideas on what to buy, get them from magazines, or better yet, get a hot girl... doesn't matter if she's your sister to help you pick them out. Whatever you buy, make sure they fit right. Ask the sales girls whether the large or the medium look better. Ill fitting clothes are a sign of social retardation and a lack of fashion sense.

You are NEVER going to get a hot girl wearing a dorky sweater and straight cut jeans that don't fit you. You don't need to "peacock" but you need to be wearing something that says you are unique and have a personal style. Choose a style, study examples of it and then dress for it.

GET IN SHAPE. I can't stress this enough. If you are fat and/or doughy, it's hurting your success with women. And 90% likely, it is your fault. Unless you have some sort of medical condition stopping you, get your ass in shape. Stop eating like shit. Work out daily. Even if it's 20 minutes in your house. You don't need to join a gym. I know plenty of guys who work out at home... Go to www.dragondoor.com and www.bodyweightculture.com for ideas on how. Being out of shape triggers a biological turn off for women. We are working to appeal to her instincts. Her instincts tell her to mate with a fit mate. Don't handicap yourself by sending mixed signals with a fat unhealthy body.

Being well dressed and in shape are CHOICES. They reflect things not only on the outside, but are excellent looks into your psyche. Respecting yourself enough to dress sharply and take care of yourself are both signs of an alpha male mind that she will instinctively notice, register and respond to... before you've even said a word.

Mastering Hard Sets

Not every set will go easily. Some will screw with you and not give you any initial signs of Attraction. Deal with it. This is part of the game. In all honesty, some of the hottest girls I’ve slept with were completely hostile when I met them. Dealing with shit tests and hostile sets is part of getting good. You need to learn a few things to master this…

There are a few reasons girls will act up like this but the main one is that they are testing your frame. They are checking to see if you will curl your tail up and run away to the corner like a wounded kitten. They don’t want kittens. They want lions. One of the best skills you can learn is non-reactivity. When you have mastered non-reactivity, you will not respond or flinch at any of the nonsense they throw at you. Non-reactivity shows that you have a strong ego and that you are above her. Whatever she does to try to affect you is ineffective because she is not powerful enough to hurt you. Her shit tests are irrelevant. They amuse you.

This doesn’t mean she is “worthless” or that you don’t care what she has to say… It just means that she is not capable of shifting your reality or your positive view of yourself. You are a powerful alpha male, not some apologetic chode who hangs on the words of some random girl. You live in your world, not hers.

One of BadBoy’s favorite tactics to deal with shit tests is to just smile and say, “Shhh…I’m talking, my dear.” And then continue on with the story he’s telling. When you smile and say it in an amused non-reactive way, the girl will be sucked into YOUR reality. Often she will laugh and be amused by your response…the same as you are. She follows your emotional lead. Your reality has won. You have won. You have passed her test. You are now in control.

BadBoy talks a lot about this in the new ebook. The importance of Frames, Power Differentials and more tactics on how to deal with Shit Tests and the underlying dynamics of what is TRULY going on in these situations is covered in great detail.

For more on the topic, I suggest you pick it up when it’s released later this month…

Best,

Steve

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Study: Testosterone is Attractive

Scientific evidence backing up everything BBL has been teaching for years. See article below...

Women want masculine men for sexual relationships and nice guys for domestication, child rearing and emotional support.

This study only talks about physical characteristics, but doesn't touch on the most important indicator of hormonal balance...behavior.

High testosterone, alpha male behavior is a huge indicator of where you sit on this hormonal scale...and it's luckily the one thing we can control. How you behave will totally determine, from the very moment a woman meets you, which category she slots you into. And we want to be in the masculine, sexually desirable category for sure.

The title of this article is misleading (like most info from the social matrix)... Any guy who is masculine and able to have a girl for a sexual "fling" can have her for a relationship if he wants. He's the one in control. It's his decision. She has given herself to him. But the reverse isn't true. Nice guys who are kept around to supplicate and buy dinner don't suddenly drive a girl sexually crazy. He gets to stay around as long as he's obedient and fulfills his subservient provider/listener role. Don't get caught in the latter position...

So ask yourself honestly, where does your behavior put you? Are you the highly sexual desirable alpha male she's dying to spread her legs for, or are you the emasculated nice guy she thinks she can make into her lap dog?


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How Women Pick Mates vs. Flings

Abigail W. Leonard
Special to LiveScience
LiveScience.comTue Jan 2, 12:10 PM ET

Science might be able to explain our fascination with Brad Pitt's chiseled jaw and George Clooney's smoldering eyes.

Women seem to judge potential mates by how masculine their features are, new research shows. Men with square jaws and well-defined brow ridges are seen as good short-term partners, while those with more feminine traits such as a rounder face and fuller lips are perceived as better long-term mates.

In the study, 854 male and female subjects viewed a series of male head shots that had been digitally altered to exaggerate or minimize masculine traits. The participants then answered questions about how they expected the men in the photos to behave.

Overwhelmingly, participants said those with more masculine features were likely to be risky and competitive and also more apt to fight, challenge bosses, cheat on spouses and put less effort into parenting. Those with more feminine faces were seen as good parents and husbands, hard workers and emotionally supportive mates [compare examples].

Despite all the negative attributes, when asked who they would choose for a short-term relationship, women still selected the more masculine looking men. Brad and George then would be picks for a brief romance, if not the long haul.

Makes sense

The study, detailed in the December issue of the journal Personal Relationships, reached conclusions similar to research published earlier last year in Britain.

The new study's author, Daniel Kruger at the University of Michigan's School of Public Health, said that from an evolutionary perspective, it makes sense women would view more masculine-looking men as potential flings and less masculine-looking ones as long-term partners.

The key, he said, is testosterone, the hormone responsible for development of masculine facial features and other secondary sexual characteristics.

Testosterone is necessary for development, but can also have detrimental health effects. It has been shown, for example, to interfere with the body's immune response, so men who are able to maintain high levels of the hormone are typically strong and healthy—traits women would want to pass on to their progeny.

Increased testosterone has also been linked to male cheating and violence in relationships, so while these men might produce high quality offspring, they don't always make great parents or faithful mates, Kruger says.

The study suggests women could be equipped to use seemingly superficial characteristics "as a cue to pick up on trends in these behavioral strategies," Kruger said.

Get a clue

There are plenty of these signals in the animal world. Male peacocks' huge, outrageous tails can make foraging for food and evading predators difficult, but the plumage, which many researchers say indicates male fitness, is so effective at luring females that the trait has been preserved in the population, Kruger points out.

While the findings are compelling, the scientific community has typically greeted the field of physiognomy, which links facial characteristics to certain behavioral traits, with skepticism.

Kruger argues, however, that the research is a valuable tool for understanding mating strategies. And, of course, for explaining how Pitt and Clooney managed to snag People Magazine's "Sexiest Man Alive" title two times each—it might have to do with their genes, but could also have something to do with ours.