It's important to keep emotional momentum going after you've met a girl and are in the process of seducing her. One of the best tools for doing that without overextending yourself is text messages.
Come up with an arsenal of cute/funny/interesting txts you can send starting the night you meet her (if you aren't taking her home ;) and through the next few days... You should have an actual phone conversation within 2-3 days of meeting, but keeping a txt exchange going insures that you stay fresh in her mind and maintain her positive emotional associations with you.
Allowing a lag time to happen after a cold approach can kill your momentum. It can be shocking how much girls are creatures of the moment... A set that seems unbelievably on suddenly doesn't answer your call two days later. Why? She's moved on emotionally. Basically, she forgot how much she was into you that night, met someone else and doesn't feel it anymore.
Most women to an extent have emotional ADD until you cement a truly solid connection with them. They are all over the place and follow impulses and stimuli as they come along. Take this into account and use it to your advantage by making sure that you are one of those ongoing stimuli by keeping in touch regularly with txt messages.
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Behave as if she has ADD. Perfect analogy!
In the end of a day, it really is like sarging a person with some psyho problems.
Its part of game.
BB
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